debriefing the myth of modern generation

debriefing the myth of modern generation

debriefing the myth of modern generation

What a beautiful feeling it is to achieve or touch something , you were afraid before . Things you were afraid to face , so you tried once , but gave up . second time gave up . You built the courage to do it 3rd time and succeeded . That’s where a different person in you starts evolving , a person who’s still afraid but lesser than the previous day .
This Whole long boring chapter is about what we millennials are most afraid of . Disagreement is what i can hear here , i’ll still carry on. Disagreement because we have been tagged as the most careless and worst generation which ever existed on this planet.

All the previous blogs mostly relates to mental illness, because for me it’s not in the mind but it’s a very important phase and state of mind . We as a generation have created so many reasons to be joyful but somehow eyes still remain sad .

I am pretty sure , you get plenty of these taunts like
God forbid , if something grave matter happens to you , you won’t be able to handle it .
And another one like , This generation is upto no good, Everything for them is a joke.
She can’t even do this, Look at him he is being so cozy to another guy . Well yeah , he gets to decide who he wants to be cozy with .

The smiling guy who sits next to you in office , that lady who you often find looking straight into nowhere. Your friends your family anyone can be in the pit of depression and is facing some serious issue. All it takes is a comfortable conversation. Yes just a conversation is their first therapy.

What makes me baffled is the time has surely changed , these years have seen many changes , physically, religiously, mentally but not all of us are able to adapt it . Like ever wondered why this generation as per the study is the most sad and depressed because they see a new future a new tomorrow but the beliefs of family and someone closer change all of it .
Why the pressure of being settled at certain age ?
Why the pressure of getting that particular degree because of your respective gender ?
Why the question is always about delay in success but not for once we are asked what was the reason of failure ?
There are too many sad eyes , so less of shoulders to lean upon.
On a funny note , I read it somewhere that Depression is like sex , many parents doesn’t know their children have it . P. So they do nothing about it . Just sulk about some fictional character being tortured and sad . *cue to laugh *

debriefing the myth of modern generation

For once , let’s not compromise and let people decide what’s their definition of being settled is and let them get away with it. The Most famous definition decided by some uncle and aunty in 1920 was being married to opposite gender , then having kids , then having more kids , then their Schooling , their marriage, their life . The hidden definition of being slave and promoting slavery . I just heard so many gasps of whom i call greater kailash’s gossip queens How can she talk such nonsense about Her elders and elders in general . Simple , Because it’s nonsense .
See even their definition was inclusive they kept including new things after the first one is achieved.
But what if we are not ready for the family ,
So we need to ask each other if being settled means the same to us or we have a different view . Are we ready for any addition in responsibility or not .
BY THE WAY Being understood by elders is still not reality even in another parallel universe .

So , I bumped into one of my class fellow few weeks ago unintentionally. During the conversation he kept reminding me that he is earning great , he is traveling so he is settled . Once he found out that i am still an intern at the age of 25. The hell broke loose in front of his eyes . He couldn’t believe his ears that i am still not SETTLED but MARRIED.
He let me know that Out of everyone he wasn’t expecting me to be so late .
Now what i wanted to tell him and everyone who pokes their noses , I am quite fine settled and no i might not work in big 4 , my yearly package is in 5 digit . But i am Happy, i am at peace, i am enjoying the time the process. And i am quite determined to get what i dreamt off.

The fear of peer pressure , family pressure , society pressure, work pressure . Sometimes A person will look at themselves as Dum Biryani . Because that’s the only thing which after facing so many pressures turns out to be delicious and beautiful but We are not biryani and that’s the whole point .

debriefing the myth of modern generation

So if you’re to compare the fear of jumping from a plane , doing scuba in a sea while tsunami waves are hitting you , Jumping from Burj khalifa , Having a conversation with Rahul Gandhi , Becoming evil because you looked at the moon during eclipse, Being married to an Workaholic, Eating pulav by the name pf biryani , Nothing compares to the fear of what will society say . It is deep down engraved within all of us .
So to end this On a good note all i can say is , what get over pressed may become diamond because coal dies and they get a real good looking incarnation in the form of diamond. But Most of us when get over pressed choose building walls around us or being alone , distrust and in worst case Death and we do not become diamonds , we become ghosts . And ghosts haunt forever.

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